As a mom I will stay supportive but let them work it out themselves. I am sure things will get better as the year goes on and they get more involved with academics and joining other organizations. But as a mom I hate to see either one of them unhappy or having problems so soon. I might be making a bigger deal of this than the situation calls for. I sure hate getting those late night calls though from a distressed child. Only time will tell. Thanks to all.