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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog
I do believe that people give you what you expect of them (or less). If you expect them to be lazy, blathering, forgetful, insenstive, sexist idiots, and even worse, put up with them like that, then that's what they're going to continue to give...
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^^^I agree?
I think I had to release past pain I allowed myself to suffer before I permitted myself to move forward in my current marital relationship with my husband.
I find generally from a scientific viewpoint that a lot of men still have large egos that are fragile; whereas, women are not as secure at she would like to be. But I also think we are living in uncertain times. At best, for those of us that are heterosexual, we have to strengthen and shore up those parts our partner lacks and have it reciprocated. This is just my opinion.