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First let me say that I agree with you 100% that alumnae need to be better informed by chapters, especially regarding PNMs that they write recs for.
As far as I know, most of the PNMs that go through at UGA are stellar (like the girl you described). They also have recs (most of them). Some of them even have multiple ones. A sorortiy has to release a certain # of girls each round. With most girls having recs, they can't give them ALL the rec related courtesies that you describe. So alot of girls with recs get released, some of whom might be really great.
It's the same issue with legacies. Legacies do receive certain courtesies (whatever your legacy policy says), but when there are so many legacies going through that a chapter could fill quota plus with legacies, you just can't keep them all. Because of this, alot of legacy ladies are released that might be very accomplished, smart, etc.
Do you know if she got a bid to another sorority or is that also part of your vent (that they didn't let you know if ot where she did end up getting a bid)?
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