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Actually, I was never in a sorority in college (it was the early 70s, man), but I found this forum when my daughter decided to go through rush at OU. It was very helpful. She went into rush with a completely open mind and no bias towards any sorority and was not even sure if being Greek was going to be right for her. She called me during her lunch break on open house day because she was so excited about the Gamma Phi house and that it was her favorite so far, but she would have to see how the rest of the houses were. Although she had some minor disappointments in the early cuts from houses she thought she would like to know better, she maintained a positive focus on the houses inviting her back and had a great time making new friends. She never seemed stressed and on pref day received invitations from her top two houses and liked them both so much that she said she would accept a bid from either. Having met the young ladies at Gamma Phi on Bid Day, I think she made a great choice and really found a house where she fits.