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Originally Posted by lauralaylin
But it causes a ton of headaches, and I know at least two groups that have definitely been left with women that were poor fits for their chapters on bid day.
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At some point you have to ask what's more important -- making every PNM happy or strengthening the overall sisterhood. Forcing groups to take PNMs they never really wanted isn't the solution!
Speaking as a non-Greek, I fully understand and sympathize with girls who either get bids to houses they're not happy with or, as in my case, don't get bids at all. But
by definition sorority membership is exclusive, so we have to expect that not everyone "gets in". Would
I have benefited from a system like Tufts'? Of course...but who wants to belong to a group where you know the only reason you're there is because the other members were forced to admit you? No thanks!