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Originally Posted by IlliniMeg
some of you might know my story - I will do a retro recruitment in a couple weeks after the hoopla died down, because it was hell but ended great.
I preffed:
1. DZ
2. ADPi
3. AOII
Completely dirty rushed at ADPi but put DZ first because I thought they were socially a better house and that I would definitely get ADPi if I didn't get DZ.
I told myself on Bid Day if I got AOII I was not pledging so I was miserable!!! But I toughed it out and changed my tune and never looked back.
Crazy, amazing story but it was rough.  |
I want to make sure to say I definitely ended up where I needed to be. My 18 year old mind was too focused on what others where saying and reputations, especially at such a large greek campus where everything is socially stratified, that I didn't know how to find the right fit.
Sometimes I think 18 year olds should not be picking majors or rushing because there is too much noise that blocks out what the heart wants.