I completely understand what your daughter is going through right now. Two years ago I was in the same position. I was told that I was going back to a certain house and that they would see me the next day and then that day didn't come. Even worse, my roommate got into the sorority I wanted to be a part of. Though I am still saddened two years later everytime rush rolls around and when I see sorority pictures and t-shirts, I know it's not the end of the world. I am now young and married and that would have never happened if I had joined a sorority. I love my life and I love my friends. There is life after rush. Please feel free to contact me or have your daughter facebook message me. I would love to talk to her and tell her my experience. I know it helps hearing it from someone your age...it helped me. I am still a student at UGA so I'm in town. I am so sorry for your daughter's situation...I wouldn't wish it upon anyone b/c I know exactly how it feels. Tell her to find someone on her hall and go to dinner...have a girls night and forget about Milledge Ave.
Much Non-greek love!