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I think its like amycat and erika said, when you get older, your "tastes" change. But for now, I'm at phase 1 in the sex-experience dep't, where you see stars and feel the magic just doing it the old fashioned way with the guy you love.

To me there is nothing like a nice massage or warm bath with your lover to make it "just right." As far as taste or scent goes, I'd deal with it as it happens and as I feel. If it seems right to me, then OK, else I'd ask him to clean, brush, gargle, or whatever...and he'd do it gladly.

As far as beads go...those are things I catch at Mardi Gras. And ya, I like oral (to a point) but if we kiss afterward its cuz both he and I spontaneously want to, and not because we want to "prove" something.

Also, a woman gets in differing moods. What may be desirable one day, may not the next. And I don't believe either partner should coerce the other or make them feel less than or guilty if they do or dont do something the other wants.