[kathykd2005]

Even if you have recs, legacy status, or chapter connections, you still may not receive a bid. I have known MANY women who had friends in a certain chapter and still did not get in--sometimes that is just the way it works. Mostly everyone who goes through recruitment goes through an emotional roller coster, even at smaller schools. Your daughter's just happens to be one of the most competitive Greek systems in the country. The result of her recruitment is most likely nothing your daughter did, and I know it is difficult to understand, but unless you have been in an NPC sorority or have Panhellenic Council experience, you don't know exactly what goes into the process. I hope your daughter's experience fairs better for her in the coming weeks.