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My wife was dropped by her first choice because of a numbers game that goes on within the Sororities. (It is not that the organizations she was dropped from necesarily dropped her the system as a whole may have dropped her from those choices if that makes sense.) She was told under the table to drop from recruitment by a friend in the chapter. She dropped waited until the winter quarter and rushed into the chapter she wanted during open recruitment when there were some spaces open. She has not regreted it since.
Sororities are much different from Fraternities when it comes to recruitment (on my campus) there are ceilings/caps that get put on the chapters and if XY chapter only has three spots to fill because they are that close to ceiling then the legacies baring any drama would get the spots and that is what happened to my wife. Fraternities for the most part don't play the numbers game we have always recruited as many people as we can and then we bid the best of the best.
Good luck to your daughter!!!
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