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Originally Posted by OmegaPDPrez
I have been spending alot of time with a guy for two months now. 
(we've known each other for almost a year)
We've been to see movies, he's taken me to dinner, and we spend some time just hanging out. I just dont understand why he hasnt kissed me yet. Should i just kiss him?  In the past whenever i dated a guy, he was always the first to kiss me. And now it seems, this guy just doesnt want to. When we are together i make sure to sit really close to him, which it seems he doesnt mind, cause he puts his arm around me and hold me closer. But no kiss. Not even a peck. So, i am thinking. Maybe he's shy? In that case, would it be a good idea for me to just kiss him, or should i continue to wait until he feels a littl more comfortable with me. (Maybe give him a drink, to help loosen him up??) 
It kind of bothers me because this is the longest i have ever been with someone and have yet to be kissed by him.  I feel like, "he like me other wise he wouldnt spend time with me." But, "what is he waiting for, how can i show him that its okay for him to kiss me??"
Some answers would be appreciated~ |
This may be "old fashioned" but, maybe he's being respectful.
In the time you've known him, has he been one to be physically agressive? Or has he expressed a set of values that would imply that he wants to develop a solid relationship with you?
What do you want from him? Just something sexual...then go ahead and kiss him.
If you want something long term, then let the man take his time and enjoy what you have (patience grasshopper
).