[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by OneTimeSBX

i agree. people neglect to remember why they went to the clubs BEFORE they were in a relationship. that shouldnt be going on in an exclusive situation. my man and i will go together on occasion. sometimes we just want to go bump & grind on a dance floor with a few drinks in us. and at the end of the night, i can take him home!

my fiance sees his best friend maybe once a week or so. there is no constant hanging out, not that i dont love his friends, because i really do like every one of them, but he isnt gonna run around and chill while im stuck in the house pregnant . damn that! i think another thing i noticed is that the older the guy gets, and the more settled his friends get (kids, jobs, wives, etc) the less time everyone else has to hang out. they are all content sometimes just renting a movie and watching it at the other persons house, for a change of environment.

Something must be wrong with me then. I just don't hang out at clubs nor do I drink, never have and I never will. Almost everyone I know drinks and either has clubbed or still clubs. I do think it's great that you two go to the clubs together. I mean if you are going to go, go together. I don't understand why couples can't do things together. What's wrong with doing things together? I know if I were married and my wife told me I want to divorce for a few hours to hang with my girls. I would tell her I want a divorce FOR REAL. I'm not down with that mess at all.