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Originally Posted by brahmajeep
I really appreciate those who have shared thier own experiances about how tough it can be to manage both. I've also learned alot on what I need to do to make it work. Thanks!
On the other hand, even though your trying to help- some of you're all's posts are really starting to piss me off.
Man up? C'mon chick, look over what i've wrote and you'll see that I HAVENT ONCE debated NOT joining because of my girlfriend. IM JOINING. I ALREADY DEFFERRED A BID. I wanted to know ahead of time what is expected, and if it would be possible to manage staying together with a serious girlfriend and pledging a fraternity.
Im not greek yet. I've never pledged. I dont know what goes on in pledging, and I wanted to know whether or not I would be FORCED to do anything that would really be against my morals and/or make me do things that would put my relationship in danger (ex. stupid games to hook up with other gurls, etc)
I DONT need any help or lecture about "manning up" and not letting a girl get in the way of what I want to do...thats not what I asked, and was not even an option to begin with.
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Chick?!?! ha ha ha! That is really cute
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Look you did not say anything about a bid before. Therefore, YOU DO NOT NEED TO TYPE IN CAPS...it is rude! I only typed one phrase in caps and I was being constructive.
There was no lecture on manning up, I simply stated it once.
I don't think many of us knew what pledging or membership intake was about before we decided to join or respective orgs. So you not knowing is not a far fetched concept.
NO ONE can force you to do things, you choose what you do be it good or bad.
The thing about a message board and asking people what they think is any and everyone can respond. So no need to get pissed as you stated.
Your tone (bolding and caps) are not cool. Chill out....it is not that serious.
You don't want to have hypertension.