PB--
When your married, you have to give chance after chance. You just cannot break up whenever you want to. But, you can have "breaks" when you figure stuff out on your own for a few hours and come back rejuvenated...
For the gentlemen, that's when you play golf or basketball on the court all day...
For the ladies, that's when you go to the spa and get "rejuvenated" by Javier...
(J/K--or am I?
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