[AKA_Monet]

For some reason, I have always liked the Men of PIKE...

Question: How independent do you want to be from your mother?

I really think her issue is that 1) College is there for you to LEARN!!! 2)You know those FRAT parties and 3) I don't think she does NOT support your decision - it is more like, she doesn't understand it and it makes her extremely worried...

Which brings me, you have to live your life... It is YOUR education, not your mom's and YOU are responsible for all that you put in your head. Whatever you want to achieve in your life is ALL ON YOU NOW...

So, if you mom doesn't want pay for school--guess what! You need to visit the student loan or scholarship office...

And any member of a GLO needs to always improve on scholarship - nothing is wrong with that. And you need to have balance to feel a part of your Fraternity... All people need that connection they to what they feel strongly about.

Don't give up on you mom. I think she will change. However, you have to give her time. Because, really, she is probably freaking about her SON making HIS OWN decisions more than what she had control over.