You seem more like a "nice" guy than a pig. A pig wouldn't have gotten played like that, or taken it so personally if they did.
I don't know if you are legit or not, but my general suggestion would be stop trying for a while, join a gym, get buff, take some dance classes, maybe buy some new clothes, and get a more aggressive attitude.
Damn man, if there is a girl out there that wants a whiny guy with no self confidence . . well who would want her?
ETA: Don't forget to wash behind your ears.
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Originally Posted by JosephWang
It's just the point of view of a guy. This sort of thing is important to guys, don't let them tell you it isn't. We all want to do it as much as possible. I like being honest and direct myself. It's not so much the number as it is the fact that you either get it or you don't.
You'll meet oh so sensitive guys in your women's studies classes that pretend not to be misogynists, but deep down they're all pigs just like me. Which is not something bad.... it just is, you know? It's in our nature.
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