Maybe it should depend on what kind of campus you're on. My school had a very non-competitive Greek system (we had to sell to the rushees, not vice-versa), so if a girl was cut from everywhere there was usually a very good reason - like one girl who wore jeans to every party and announced that she was not going to dress up as a rushee or a member. Or girls with serious alcohol/boy problems. It wasn't just that the rushee was from a small town or was shy or something.
There are people who just are not good for ANY chapter - and I don't think chapters should be forced to take them just because they rushed! Now, if you're just not sure she's perfect for you, that's a different story.
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