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Originally posted by FuzzieAlum
How about when someone isn't even on your bid list, and they don't get a bid anywhere, and the Greek Life advisor calls you and begs you to take her, since you were the last chapter to cut her - and so she gets a bid even though the chapter voted NO? This happened to us! Granted, our VP Membership was brand-new, and the girl actually ended up being an OK member, but STILL.
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That's forced pledging, and most national sororities have a rule against it. Aphigal, I'm surprised the sororities at Tufts have put up with that policy (the nationals that is).
I feel torn on this subject - on one hand I think it is cruel to send a girl to a party where the sisters didn't vote for her to be there, but on another hand there are some times when if girls get a second chance, the sisters end up really liking them. I can see it for the first night back if you have 3 or 4 invite nights, but after that, NO WAY.