[SWTXBelle]

I had a former student who told me he and his intended were not going to register because they didn't need anything. I told him if he didn't he was gonna end up with a bunch of vases and picture frames, and suggested he register for nice towels and linens. He did, and was very happy - they may be starting out in a tiny grad-student apt., but they have comfy sheets and thick towels!
I was brought up to give practical, everyday stuff for the shower, and nicer (china, silver, something special) for the wedding itself.
One of my sorority sisters married later, and had her grandmother's china, so they just registered for a Christmas china pattern. I thought that was neat.