[jaade124]

This happened to my chapter this past Spring. We had a girl going through recruitment whos sister was currently an active sister in sorority XYZ...we were a little leary of her but she seemed to really like us. She kept coming back, telling Rho Chis how much she loved us, she even put us first in her rank list! Again we weren't sure about her but we extended her a bid because we really did love her and she ended up accepting it!

I think you just have to be open and say "yes my sister is a member of this but I would like to experience this for myself and find a place where I fit in and feel comfortable" and if you really like one group, really express your interest! They'll at least see you're interested and take that into account.