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Another take on whether or not to put down legacies is the way a PNM is dealt with during rush. When you know that someone comes from a Greek family, your discussion takes a different tone. You know that they already come from a family who knows and understands the Greek system; you don't need to spend time explaining all that. Knowing they already have a point of reference on that opens up new avenues of discussion.

Also, if there is nothing down on the rush sheet, the question may come up: do you have any relatives who are in fraternities or sororities? Then do you lie, name only a few, or what? I see both sides of the issue. Some groups may cut the person, figuring he/she might just be a waste of time. But, some groups like PNMs who already have "Greek heritage" in their blood, whatever national.

You have to figure, also, at least with the chapter I advise, they like the "challenge" of rushing someone who is a leg. to another chapter on campus. That makes them work harder to try to impress the person and maybe win him away from his legacy group. Guys just often look at it as a competition which, in most regards, it is! Perhaps sororities are the same; I guess it just depends on the group.

The PNM should know not the DWELL on his or her legacy; that could be the kiss of death. Simply acknowledge it and maybe say, "Yes, my mom is a ____ from State, and that is part of the reason I am going through formal rush. She loved her Greek experience, and I'm hoping to find a home here that I will enjoy as much."