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Depending on your sisters involvement in Greek Life and the panhellenic attitude there, one possibility is to talk to your sister about it and ask her to let some of the women in greek life know that she doesn't want you to join her chapter just because she is there..... We had this situtuation at my school with 2 sisters and when the second came on campus, the older sister made it very clear to every chapter that she didn't want them to "pick her sisters chapter for her". She said that she and her sister were two completely different people who were possibly looking for different things and to treat her like any other PNM.
The younger sister ended up joining a different chapter than her sister but had they not been so open about her choosing her own chapter I think many of them would have dropped such a strong connection.
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