[NutBrnHair]

I would advise you to show sincere interest when you visit ALL the groups that interest you. When a PNM says things like "I am thrilled to be back here!" or "All of you are so nice to me -- it really makes me feel comfortable here." You will send a message that your mind is not set on your sister's group.

There are rules about what the sorority members can say to a PNM, but you can say anything you want to them.