I think what she's meaning to say is if she joined a sorority with enforced study hours and a calendar that is planned out, it would help - at least that's how I take it. Not everyone is adept at doing this on their own.
And whether or not one has a social life has nothing to do with what you can offer a social sorority. You don't get a bid because you throw parties or have a ton of boyfriends or are at the bar 6 nights a week, at least you shouldn't. That is not what "social" means.
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