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Originally Posted by Zillini
First off let me just say I'm surprised that part of a post of mine prompted a whole new thread. Wow, that was unexpected. I'm flattered. 
Second, for anyone wondering all I will say is that you have to trust me that there was just cause for this girl to get her pin pulled. It was NOT a case of girls being petty or catty. She was given numerous chances to change her ways.
Finally, how did we handle it? We took the high road. We informed Student Life and Panhellenic privately that this person was no longer a member so they knew her actions did not reflect on our organization. Actives were told that if this person's name came up in conversation around campus they should simply say she is no longer a member, nothing more. If they ran into her, they should at least be polite. |
Now that I think about it, I've seen this happen twice - once prior to my enrollment in college, the other time at another chapter. Both incidents were handled exactly as Zillini proposed, and it wasn't until the former sisters graduated that any of the other sisters knew what happened.
So, I can definitely state that this is a VERY successful method!