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As far as my experience goes, I have met people (Greek and Non-Greek) who see sex as no big deal and I have met people who take sex very seriously. Generally, I do think that the overall attitude toward sex is casual, but as long as you have your boundaries set, this shouldn't matter too much. It might make it a little harder if everyone around you is so casual about it, but it's still possible to stick to your boundaries and wait to have sex if that's what you truly want. Personally, nobody has ever pressured or tried to convince me to have sex. Also, there will be like-minded people you can surround yourself with for support, if needed.
As far as the show goes, I think that it is somewhat entertaining, however I find myself laughing at some of the things they say & do because I know that has not/would not happen in my sorority. For instance, the scene where the sorority president is telling her sister to stay with her cheating boyfriend and even pressuring her to have sex with him (for the sake of the sorority). I do not know one girl in my sorority that would tell me to stay with a cheating scum bag for the sake of the sorority, much less try to convince me to sleep with him! Quite the opposite, my sisters would be taking my side and help me get through the breakup. And about the scene where the sorority pledges are dancing scantily clad on a fraternities lawn...no self-respecting sorority at my school would ever do that! We look down upon that kind of behavior.
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