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Originally posted by Reds6
I met a guy who is very nice, head on straight whole nine, but I don't think I'm that attracted to him physically, but mentally I am. He has a bush that just bothers the heck out of me. What to do? What to do?
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I know how you feel.
When I first met my boyfriend, I did not like him at all. I knew that he was really into me, but it just wasn't there. But, as I got to know him, I started liking him a lot more. We connected very well mentally but I still didn't think that he was all that I wanted physically.
That mental connection kept getting stronger the more time that I spent with him. As I started to like him as a person more, he started looking better to me. Now, I think he looks just as good as anybody else.
He's not a pretty boy or the kind that has girls chasing him all of the time. And, I'm quite comfortable with that. I don't have to worry about him running around on me. He treats me very well and I have no complaints.
My man ain't ugly, but he's not about to make any woman, except me, faint either.
He looks good to me.
Reds: I say keep getting to know him. And, if you really start to like him, you'll start to be attracted to him too.