We don't name names on Greek Chat because it's called being Panhellenic.
Because it is unfair to prejudice a PNM without giving her an opportunity to make her own choices. If she hears that the only "good sororities" are ABC and XYZ than she's going to immediately write off the others based on someone else's speculation.
What happens when she gets cut by ABC and XYZ and thinks that it is social suicide if she even considers any other sororities? Answer: she drops of recruitment.
Great. Now the PNM does not get to experience sorority membership and if this trend keeps up, ABC and XYZ will soon be the only sororities on campus, and eventually they will die out, too, because it will eventually be decided that ABC is better than XYZ, and so on....
And what if another PNM at another school stumbles on here and reads that ABC and XYZ are the only chapters to join? She thinks the same things apply to her school, and the cycle continues.
I obviously can't speak for the men, but sorority women work together for the good of the entire Panhellenic system-- not just our own sororities.
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