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Originally Posted by DaemonSeid
SBX...I have been trying to make that the whole point of teh thread.....what do we do to take care of ourselves as men....basic 'survival' tip and things like that...but some of those who are insecure think that is bordering on being 'gay'. Just because one is gay doesn't mean that they have an eye for being able to dress or take care of oneself....hack a lot of what we do AS MEN are things we will pass down to our sons and so on....much of what we do NOW is stuff that was passed on from our elders.
And I agree SBX...there is a very fine and simple line bordering me looking good for myself and my woman vs trying to outdo that same woman and I think a lot of men can agree...when a guy does more to look better than the women he dates, they yeah.....he needs to be questioned. Yeah it's all in the presentation and just like some presentations....some are subtle...some are overly done
Cuff links, how to tie a necktie, how to coordinate certain items of clothes for certain occasions etc etc.....there are certain things my grandfather taught me before he passed that I will want to pass on...there is no fear in discussing it...it's simply talk....so if you fear that your masculinity is in danger...then hey...there are plenty of other threads for you to post and create.
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There's a big difference in wearing cuff links, tying your own ties, etc. and talking with dudes about wearing boxers or briefs. And there's nothing wrong with being gay aside from your obsession with leather.
-Rudey