To the other "Ladies of Maturity...." LOL......this is why older women are better in the sack
!!!!!!! But seriously, I'd love to be this paragon of delicacy and virtue and say that my attitudes changed when I got married, but......uh, no. I just don't see what is so gross about your own bodily fluids. I mean, not to be graphic, but are you nearly as offended by the smell of your own gas as you are someone else's? You pop your own zits don't you? We females have certain monthly issues to deal with, right? So what's the big deal? First of all, unless you have a problem down there it really doesn't taste or smell offensive. Second, it isn't like he is going to be smothered in stuff....I don't know. And as for the other person's various bodily features, why are you having sex with someone in the first place if you are so squeamish about their body? If I am comfortable enough with someone to sleep with them, I can't really think of anything that is going to gross me out....there are safe-sex issues that non-monogamous couples need to deal with but outside of that, what the f*ck? To me, there is a lot more to sex than just the old in-and-out. Just my old lady opinion!!!!!!
I have "snowballed" my husband just so he would have to see what it tastes like!!!! Personally I think the female "secretion" is much better than the male's. He was cool with it.
As to the anal bead thing.....don't get me started!!!!!! I have a hilarious story there but there is no way I am sharing it on GC!!!!!! Let's just say, Lifesaver, yes you can get into ALL kinds of troub le there....if you actually had to go get them extracted.....HOW HUMILIATING!!!!!