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and remember, it's your decision. these girls will be your sisters. and just because one chapter is FAH-BUH-LOUS one or two or ten years, one year can send a chapter in the hole. as long as you feel comfortable with the girls, then the chapter can and should work for you. my chapter was arguably one of the bottom tiered when i went through recruitment...i heard the rumors, i did research -- and i still preffed them number one, and couldn't be been happier. my sorority, in the course of a year, became one of the top on campus, and still is (and i'm not saying that because i'm in it). go with what your heart feels -- being in the "smart and hot" house doesn't mean a thing if you don't have a bond with the girls. and the closer you feel to your particular chapter, the stronger (and more successful) your chapter will be.
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the above comments are the opinion of alrphimu and in no way reflect the opinions of her chapter, university, PHA, or national fraternity. the spelling errors are her own, as well.
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