My house is pretty much having the same problems as your all's. (Oh, no, my redneck accent is coming back!) I'm not going to air everyone's dirty laundry because this is a public forum, but I know what you all are saying because it's going on here, too. First there were the conflicts between groups like the partiers and non-partiers, but now it's more on the individual level with people not liking each other. And the fines...oh, God. One of my sisters came to my room crying last night because she missed an event and got fined for it after she had already gotten permission not to attend because she was sick. She's basically going to have to pay it because someone later decided that her reason wasn't good enough. It seems like we get fined for looking at someone funny! I'm already stretching my funds just paying dues and stuff, but these fines are a real pain in my a**. I would understand if it was big stuff, but most of us (including me) have good attendance to most everything and when we do get fined, it's a nasty surprise. That's all I'm going to say because I don't want to stick my foot in my mouth, but the problems seemed to have grown along with the size of our chapter.
I just keep reminding myself that this is just one chapter, though...I still love the sorority itself.