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Originally posted by Metamorphosis
I totally agree.. I find it crazy that there are lots of people, both men and women who have a long list of things that they want their potential partners to bring to a relationship, but the things that they are requesting are not even present in their own lives. And that pretty much goes for alot of things. Like I still dont understand how men can request that their women have a body to drool over, but are sitting at home with a beer belly!!! Or that women must have a man with a car, but are still taking the bus to get around. I think that we need to realize that in order to request somethings from a significant other, we have to be able to bring the same things to the table.

Now as for lowering our standards.. goodness gracious
I dont think that should even have to be the case. If I have a college degree or I'm making a certain amount of money, Am I wrong for looking for a man that is on the same level that I am on??

YOU ARE so Right Metamorphosis as my as your soror from Pi Beta #3 Sp 96 told me one time "IS that too much to ask?" Set no standard that you yourself cannot achieve! That goes both ways.............But also be understanding as well..........