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Originally Posted by 357Nupe
I find it funny that people want to add God and remove God as they feel it necessary  . I never said roles according to the bible, you assumed and you know what you do when you a$$ u  not me. The roles I am referring to are natural and of course that generally agrees with the bible since it is the essence of nature. |
Natural to you. Not me
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Why do you find it hard to give up control?
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Because I don't have to
And neither should he.
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Your problem is not with marriage, men or religion, it is with some words that you have given control of your life. My wife give me control but with the gift she gave me I returned the gift of control to her. I am the head of my house but only because my wife allows it, she still does everything she wants and never ask for permission. Hell I ask to go out, she leaves and calls back to say I will be in later, bossy a$$ AKA's. 
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My idea of marriage is not the same as yours (obviously) To me, it's not about control but being equal to each other. No one controls me but me. No problem.
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Your assumption is based on perception and yours my dear is flawed. Roles are a part of life when you got your job you got a role, when your were born into your family you got a role, what makes you think that stops when you get married. I hope that when your mate finds you he uses the right words for your sake.
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Flawed by whose standard?
I agree roles are a part of life, some born into, some given, some by choice. My life, truly about choices. At the root of it all, I chose not to be married right now.
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As for you hurting a mans ego, maybe you confused a boy for a man. You can hurt a mans feelings and physical body but his ego should be Diamond encrusted.
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Maybe I did and maybe I didn't, I still hurt their feelings.
Why are you guys getting so puffed up? 357Nupe, you're married so what difference does it make for you?