Soror NP, I can't really answer your question with one answer cause we are talking about two different things here. I want to be taken care of by my man simply because I have never experienced it and I am tired of taking care of everything. I created this Ms. Independent monster myself.
So, if my children were older and I was at the age that I am now then the answer would be a definite no.
Now, if I were a little old lady and my children offered to take care of me then the answer would be, hell yeah. I know that they would because my teen-aged sons are working and when they have money, they do offer it to me.