[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by NinjaPoodle

Dont get it twisted. I said equal

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Main Entry: 1equal
Pronunciation: 'E-kw&l
Function: adjective
Etymology: Middle English, from Latin aequalis, from aequus level, equal
1 a (1) : of the same measure, quantity, amount, or number as another (2) : identical in mathematical value or logical denotation : EQUIVALENT b : like in quality, nature, or status c : like for each member of a group, class, or society <provide equal employment opportunities>
2 : regarding or affecting all objects in the same way : IMPARTIAL
3 : free from extremes: as a : tranquil in mind or mood b : not showing variation in appearance, structure, or proportion
4 a : capable of meeting the requirements of a situation or a task b : SUITABLE <bored with work not equal to his abilities>
synonym see SAME



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submit

Main Entry: sub·mit
Pronunciation: s&b-'mit
Function: verb
Inflected Form(s): sub·mit·ted; sub·mit·ting
Etymology: Middle English submitten, from Latin submittere to lower, submit, from sub- + mittere to send
transitive verb
1 a : to yield to governance or authority b : to subject to a condition, treatment, or operation <the metal was submitted to analysis>
2 : to present or propose to another for review, consideration, or decision <submit a question to the court> <submit a bid on a contract> <submit a report>; also : to deliver formally <submitted my resignation>
3 : to put forward as an opinion or contention <we submit that the charge is not proved>
intransitive verb
1 a : to yield oneself to the authority or will of another : SURRENDER b : to permit oneself to be subjected to something <had to submit to surgery>
2 : to defer to or consent to abide by the opinion or authority of another
synonym see YIELD - sub·mit·tal /-'mi-t&l/ noun

I don't have it twisted, but you do. Big time. The man is the final decision maker. Period. No 50/50. There is only one leader in every situation. Period. Someone has to be in charge. There is no such thing as a 50/50 relationship where both are in charge. That's an impossibility. Somebody is leading somebody. She is to be involved in every discussion, issue and decision but if they can't come to an agreement, his decision stands, and he is also the speaker of the household. Thanks, but I don't need definitions from a man made dictionary. The fact that you typed all that still has no affect on my thoughts. You have your opinion and if that's the kind of relationship you want, then handle your business. But I'll handle mine.