If your hubby doesn't see why one should maintain college friendships, then what are all those people (mainly guys) doing at college football and basketball games that they show on TV?? It would be an interesting survey to see how many there ACTUALLY went to one of the schools participating.
As we've said before on GC, being a collegiate and being an alumna can be an almost totally different experience. As an adult, you go to meetings, fundraisers, philanthropy projects, etc., because YOU want to, not because you will get fined if you don't.
Different alumnae chapters have different participation levels..some are very large or very small, some are very very involved with the community and some only meeting a few times a year socially.
Think of it as behavior enhancement!
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"You'll be glad you did.".