thank you Blutang...i appreciate the support! you only get one chance to make it right or wrong...i definately want her to grow up knowing her heritage (although still not too sure how to introduce the latina side, that part of her family even I havent met, and there is no contact with her father at all.)
my second daughter will be here in November, and i want HAPPY children that grow into HAPPIER adults! not the bitter, hate filled ones that grace us with their presence everyday in life
