[OneTimeSBX]

you are probably right too, AlphaFrog. my fiance looks nothing like me, either. but in this case, she didnt pick any of the black or latina women. they were all white.

i think my concern is the fact that i had issues with my complexion growing up. i have a sister who is lighter than me with hazel eyes, one of those genetic things that just kinda resurfaced from somewhere, and i was always so jealous. i was always singled out because i was always the darkest one in my classes, and i felt left out. i wanted not necessarily to be white, but to be lighter. i wanted to blend more.

i just want to make sure that this doesnt spiral into a "lighter/whiter is better" type of issue with her...