[DG4evah]

Thanks Fuzzy Alum, you've eloquently said what I feel. I also had a great Greek experience with absolutely no hazing. It's not just my husband. I also would not want my boys to experience hazing of any kind and until some fraternities understand & change that, they are going to lose membership. However, some fraternities have changed & his may be one of them. But the scary thing is that some nationals have changed things, but some groups have gone "underground" and are still hazing.

Why would any idiot parent subject their children to hazing?

I don't think that a parent with a dead or damaged 18 year old is going to be saying," I'm glad my son joined XYZ fraternity". Get real.

And, you know what else? I bet I'm a far more loyal alumna and I wasn't hazed. I think that the statistics would bear that out: Hazing = unhappy greeks who fall away & aren't involved anymore. I can't believe I'm even arguing about this in 2002!!!