There are several issues here that need to be addressed. First, as a former "rush counselor" I would encourage you to go through formal rush if you really desire sorority membership. It is a great way to see the houses, and learn what each is like. You will meet the GLO members, and make make new friends from your group, which is important when one is new on campus. This way you can learn what chapters you might be interested in, and which chapters would be interested in having you as a member. However, many GLO's automatically cut juniors, even if they have outstanding GPA's.
Every set of circumstances is different, depending on the chapters at your campus. I have heard of houses that have embraced an older sister with children to the extent of babysitting if needed. NPC sororities have learned that modern life is not always "traditional." If you don't at least give it a try, you will never know just what might have been. If membership in a sorority is your heart's desire, don't hold back. Let your enthusiasm show. Good Luck, and let us know what you decide!
Barbino
