[bluz4]

Original Ape,
I should be being productive here at work but i had to respond. it killed me that when i was in college, other college women expected their college men to have a car, mad money, tight ass clothes and everything else. and how come those same girls didnt have anything to their name. i definitely think we women have to think outside the bank when it comes to our men. if a woman doesnt have anything to her name, how can she expect and demand that her man has all stih tight????
my boyfriend is in law school which translates to "he has nothing." although i have a job and sometimes fit the bill when we go out, it's truly all right with me because i know he is making a life for himself and it is an investment.
we have to support our men no matter if they have no money or all the money. i find that a lot of black men i know always complain that black women are all about the money but dont have any themselves.
all right i'm out.