I think "she's not a good fit" can run both ways. Obviously, there are some people who are just not going to mesh with a chapter, and no amount of growth will change that.
But IME, it was a catchall excuse that was used when a PNM was quieter/more studious and the chapter was more social/outgoing (or vice versa). That use of the expression, to me, is total BS.
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It's gonna be a hootenanny.
Or maybe a jamboree.
Or possibly even a shindig or lollapalooza.
Perhaps it'll be a hootshinpaloozaree. I don't know.
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