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Originally Posted by violetpretty
Is it a faux pas to contact the alumane chapter nearest her for the sororities that she still needs recs for if they are closer than the nearest Alumnae Panhellenic? ETA: For example, suppose she can't find anyone who is an alumna of ADPi through her contacts. Is it ok to contact Greater Birmingham ADPi alumnae association to find someone to write her a rec?
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Personally, I would say yes, it would sound like you're desperate. But hey, other people might think differently. The thing about the really strong groups in the South is that some chapters only will consider recs from somebody who personally knows the girl and/or her family. Another group or two will only accept recs from the designated sponsor chairman or committee for that city. More than likely, if she and her parents ask around, she'll be able to get 95 per cent of the groups covered.