[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by OneTimeSBX

i dont think it is the men's fault 100%. we, as women, need to learn how to gently put our foot down when it comes to relationships. we cant threaten you all into marrying us. we cant get knocked up and trap you. what we can do (but usually dont) is follow thru on our threats. i had to do that, didnt want to, but it got to that point with my now fiance. i had to explain to him that after 4 years, if there was not a good reason to stay shacked up, that i was leaving. i packed my stuff and left. i didnt want a ring, i didnt want a proposal, i wanted a PLAN. thats what i got!

maybe im wrong, but thats what most women want: an intention to do right by us!

That's it. There you go! I'm not trying to be graphic, but I call it like I see it. These men gotta realize the nookie isn't free. Make that joker pay for it with a ring. Most men are like, hey if I can get it for free, cool. Once she gets pregnant that joker is out. That's why you gotta make that joker pay for it with a ring.