[ChildoftheHorn]

I am the only girl in my major ( Computer Engineering ). It really only takes discipline.

That means during the terms of non-recruitment you take a heavier load then you do during recruitment. You will take the same amount of classes, but keep the really hardcore at a different time. Also, this may be harse, but the term(s) before recruitment you should take the lighter courses that you can.
You need to get your GPA high so that you are seen just the same as any other PNM instead of a potential problem. SOCIALIZE WITH THE RIGHT PEOPLE!!! That means spending less time at the parties and more at meetings and in the library with study groups. You will likely meet the members that you would get along with because you are going to be a more serious student. If you know more serious students, there is less likely to be any sort of percieved problems and you can ask them about how it is at your school being an engineer.

Truth be told, at many universities, there are houses that are going to be more science friendly than others. Its not anyone's fault, but people tend towards others like themselves. Thats why some houses draw heavily from certain majors. Don't feel threatened by this.

Just show them that you are a wonderful and social individual, so much so that they don't simply see you as an engineering major.

Hey, as said before, you could even b an officer! *wink* wink*