[peachy]

aephi alum,

Does your husband control your actions in other situations? You don't have to answer - just a question for you to ponder. It worries me that he doesn't even like to see your sorority t-shirts. His GDI status might seem like the obvious answer, but there may be more complex reasons.

He knew that you were in a sorority when he proposed to you and married you... steps that (hopefully) are taken after much thought.

Even if he expected that your sorority involvement would fade after college, a loving spouse typically is supportive when his/her "better half" has personal interests. And what husband wouldn't like one evening a month when he can order pizza and play cards with his buddies?

For me, my marriage bond outweighs my sorority bond. Difficulties with the marriage bond must be fixed before anything else. I hope that you and your husband can resolve this - and that you soon have a great alum experience with all of your sisters!

"Peachy!"