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I agree with Maximus.. While you may be angry right now and feel like you want to vent, it is never a good idea to send a nasty letter.. Think about it like resigning from a job, even if you were treated horrifically you NEVER write a nasty letter telling off your boss. It's unprofessional and makes you look immature and it would be that same from a disaffiliating sister.
I received a nasty disaffiliation letter from one of my sisters while in school and it pinpointed specific people and a specific incident. It didn't change anything and instead it just made the writer look bitter and childish-- it gave the rest of the chapter the chance to say "see, she wasn't a good fit to start out with... aren't we lucky to have gotten rid of the psycho girl". I'm not trying to tell you that you need to forgive and forget because I can understand being upset and this is a hard decision to make, but take the time to cool down and go out on the high road. A nasty letter will just let them convince themselves that they didn't want someone like 'that' in the chapter to start out with while it really should give you the opportunity to show them what a loss it is that they couldn't resolve things with you and will lose an amazing woman from their sisterhood.
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