Honestly, the reason I decided to go thou recruitment was because I needed to make friends that were girls. I am an Electrical Engineering major and there are not very many girls in that major. I was tried of hanging out with guys all the time(which if you know/knew an engineer you will understand). Also because I was shy and wanted to be more confident when talking to others and make new friends. I didn't join til my soph. year and my freshman year I really didn't do much but go to class and go home.
I was not popular in high school and I found where I belong. I honestly never thought I would join a sorority. Sorority life is not for everyone. I have friends that did not like what sorority life had to offer but I also have many friend (including myself) that did like what it had to offer.
Not all are like the girls you described.
Fraternity/sorority relationship: socials and events are done with them. Girls will have their favorite fraternity or be dating guys from a specific fraternity but you are not required to like a specific fraternity. Guys will be guys not matter if they are in a fraternity or not. I have at least one friends in each fraternity on my campus. Many guys from the fraternity will be nice and make good friends but there is always going to be some idiot that thinks he's all that just because he is in a fraternity.
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