Well said, JWright25.
I'd like to ask though that we be patient with the young women who haven't even set foot on a college campus yet.
It's true as SmartBlondeGPhiB that the girls from the OPs high school may not even get bids, but I see quite frequently that some young women who would be excellent members in every respect are reluctant to go through recruitment because of what the other girls they know going through are like.
Once they go to school, they have the chance to see what Greek women are really like, but until they do, they may not have much else to go on.
So when one actually asks, "why did you join?" she's probably trying to look beyond the bad stereotypes even if she doesn't express it perfectly.
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